Want to know 5 Hot Tips for getting through your divorce successfully? You will eventually get through your divorce. How will your life be when you reach that point? To get the best results and not wreck your health or your spirit in the process, follow these suggestions:
1. Separate from your spouse as soon as possible. Living together during an ongoing divorce is a recipe for conflict and high stress.
2. Hire a good divorce lawyer who is a good fit for you. If you have a divorce lawyer who makes you feel terrible, you will not be happy. Divorce is stressful enough. Hire a divorce lawyer with whom you feel comfortable and confident.
3. Break it down into bite-size portions. Some of the financial and other paperwork of divorce can be massive and overwhelming. Break it down into smaller pieces - schedule several one or two hour blocks of time to work on those projects.
4. Make a wish list of settlement items. You never know when an opportunity for settlement will arise. Keep a running list of the things you would like to accomplish in the settlement of the case so you will be prepared and not forget something. Make sure your children are the first thing on your list.
5. When you feel like doing something negative or spiteful (such as send a nasty text message or post something snarky on Facebook), go take a walk instead. You will not regret the fresh air and exercise.
For more information, see this article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/edra-j-pollin/going-through-a-divorce-w_b_1248520.html.
2 comments:
I absolutely agree with your 5th tip. Sometimes we feel like letting out all our emotions online, which can only cause more complications. It's better to take a walk and cool off a bit. You'll definitely feel much better afterwards. =)
My sister may end up going through a divorce. I didn't realize that getting separated is the best situation. Is that to make the separation easier? I do agree that she'll need to get a specialized lawyer who practices divorce. http://www.robertelong.com/Legal_Services.html
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